We have been lucky to enjoy my in-law’s cottage at Hillside
Beach on Lake Winnipeg for twenty years. They’ve been enjoying it for even
longer, but times, they are a-changin’. If you’re not a Manitoban, then maybe
you don’t know this, but Lake Winnipeg is one of Canada’s largest fresh water
lakes after the Greats! It also has some unique properties such as being
shallow and sandy, and having a very large watershed area. This watershed
brings in all kinds of contaminants and over time, the algae population in the
lake has had massive growth. All of this means that our beach becomes un-swimmable
– and sometimes so thick with green, stinky algae – not even safe to paddle a
kayak in. The diminishing health of our beach has made cottage-going somewhat
less appealing, which made us daydream of a cleaner lake. We even talked from
time to time, about moving home to our rural roots near beautiful Riding
Mountain National Park, where the aptly named Clear Lake is nestled. However,
we enjoy the amenities of the city and the opportunities a larger centre affords
our kids: French Immersion School, for example. With the kernel of these
ideals, we browsed Canadian cities.
10) These tiny humans need direct instruction and continuous feedback about self-control. They may need to be reminded every day before every transition that you expect them to respect personal space. They may need you to control the “traffic” flow in the classroom. They may need you to scaffold their routines such as classroom clean-up so that not so many tiny humans are moving chairs, or brooms, or materials at once. 9) Teach them to ask you if they want a hug, otherwise, you will have little hands and clingy bodies in your personal space all the time. They can say, “Excuse me, I need a hug please.” 8) Tiny humans have big feelings. And they often do not know how to cope with them. This manifests in tears, outrage, raucous laughter, and pushing/shoving/grabbing, etcetera – sometimes all at once. What can you do about this? Well, just like your own children, they are entitled to their feelings. Let them have their feelings, but teach them some strategies for coping appropri...
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